\u0130nsan sosyal bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r ve hayat\u0131 boyunca \u00e7evresindeki insanlarla ileti\u015fim kurar. Aileden sonra insanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131nda en \u00f6nemli yere sahip olan ki\u015filer arkada\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Arkada\u015fl\u0131k; sevgi, sayg\u0131, g\u00fcven ve samimiyet \u00fczerine kurulan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ba\u011fd\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar sevin\u00e7lerini, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerini ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 olaylar\u0131 arkada\u015flar\u0131yla payla\u015fmak ister. Ancak herkes ger\u00e7ek dost olmayabilir. Baz\u0131 insanlar sadece iyi g\u00fcnlerde yan\u0131m\u0131zda bulunurken baz\u0131lar\u0131 zor zamanlar\u0131m\u0131zda da bizi yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmaz.<\/p>\n
Bu nedenle “Ger\u00e7ek arkada\u015fl\u0131k zor zamanda belli olur” s\u00f6z\u00fc toplumda \u00e7ok s\u0131k kullan\u0131lan anlaml\u0131 bir s\u00f6zd\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar, dostlar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011ferini en \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 g\u00fcnlerinde anlar.<\/p>\n
\u0130yi g\u00fcnlerde insanlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmak olduk\u00e7a kolayd\u0131r. Bir insan\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131, mutlu oldu\u011funda e\u011flenceli zamanlar ge\u00e7irirken \u00e7evresinde bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi olabilir. Herkes g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlerde birlikte vakit ge\u00e7irmek ister. Fakat insan bir sorun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funda ya da yard\u0131ma ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funda baz\u0131 ki\u015filer uzakla\u015fabilir. \u0130\u015fte b\u00f6yle zamanlarda ger\u00e7ek dostlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n
Ger\u00e7ek bir arkada\u015f, dostunun k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnlerinde onu yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmaz. \u00dczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funda moral verir, dertlerini dinler ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir destek bile insan\u0131 mutlu etmeye yeter. \u00d6rne\u011fin hasta oldu\u011fumuzda bizi arayan, derslerimiz k\u00f6t\u00fc gitti\u011finde yan\u0131m\u0131zda duran veya hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bize do\u011fru yolu g\u00f6steren ki\u015filer ger\u00e7ek dostlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek arkada\u015fl\u0131k sadece birlikte g\u00fclmek de\u011fil, gerekti\u011finde birlikte \u00fcz\u00fclmeyi de bilmektir. Ayr\u0131ca ger\u00e7ek dostlar d\u00fcr\u00fcst olur. Yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bizi k\u0131rmadan uyar\u0131rlar ve her zaman iyili\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131skanmaz, aksine bizimle gurur duyarlar. Arkam\u0131zdan k\u00f6t\u00fc konu\u015fmaz ve g\u00fcvenimizi sarsacak davran\u0131\u015flar yapmazlar. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sosyal medya sayesinde insanlar \u00e7ok fazla arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir. Ancak \u00f6nemli olan arkada\u015f say\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fil, g\u00fcvenebilece\u011fimiz samimi dostlara sahip olmakt\u0131r. Bir problem ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bize destek olan ki\u015filer, hayat\u0131m\u0131z boyunca unutulamaz. Ger\u00e7ek arkada\u015fl\u0131k maddi \u00e7\u0131karlara de\u011fil, sevgi ve g\u00fcvene dayal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden dostluk ili\u015fkileri her zaman korunmal\u0131 ve arkada\u015flara de\u011fer verilmelidir.<\/p>\n
Sonu\u00e7 olarak ger\u00e7ek arkada\u015fl\u0131k \u00e7o\u011fu zaman zor g\u00fcnlerde belli olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 zamanlarda yan\u0131m\u0131zda kalan insanlar bizi ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemseyen ki\u015filerdir. Dostluk; fedakarl\u0131k, anlay\u0131\u015f, g\u00fcven ve sevgi gerektirir. \u0130nsanlar arkada\u015f se\u00e7erken dikkatli olmal\u0131 ve kendilerine de\u011fer veren ki\u015filerin k\u0131ymetini bilmelidir. Ger\u00e7ek dostlar hayat\u0131n en de\u011ferli hazinelerinden biridir. Bu y\u00fczden dostluk ili\u015fkilerimizi korumal\u0131, arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 samimi ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst davranmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n
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Elif Su FINDIK\u00c7I<\/strong><\/p>\n 9\/D<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130nsan sosyal bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r ve hayat\u0131 boyunca \u00e7evresindeki insanlarla ileti\u015fim kurar. Aileden sonra insanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131nda en \u00f6nemli yere sahip olan ki\u015filer arkada\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Arkada\u015fl\u0131k; sevgi, sayg\u0131, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":214,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,3,12,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-9-sinif","category-ada-koleji","category-edebiyat","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=211"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":218,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211\/revisions\/218"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/214"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloggers.corumadakoleji.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}